It might look like homework that takes until midnight because every page has to be rewritten. A shower that lasts 45 minutes. The same question, asked for the tenth time tonight: “Are you sure it’s fine?” Or nothing you can see at all, just a teenager who seems tired, tense, and far away.
OCD in teens is more common than most people think, it’s often hidden, and it is very treatable. This guide is written for two readers at once: teens who think they might have OCD, and parents who are worried about their child. It covers what OCD looks like at this age, what the research says about the question many parents ask first (“will this last into adulthood?”), and a step-by-step plan for each of you.
Start here: the short version
- OCD is a loop: an unwanted thought, a spike of anxiety, and a ritual that brings short relief. It is not a character flaw, and the thoughts don’t say anything about who you are.
- OCD often starts or gets worse in the teen years, and many teens keep it secret.
- It doesn’t usually last forever. In long-term studies, about half of young people with OCD no longer had it by adulthood, and treated teens do much better.
- The best-studied treatment is a type of CBT called exposure and response prevention (ERP). In trials it helps around 7 in 10 young people.
- The earlier help starts, the better the outlook. You don’t need to be sure it’s OCD to ask.
In this guide: What OCD looks like in teens · Why it often starts now · OCD or normal worry? · Will it last into adulthood? · Step-by-step plan for teens · Step-by-step plan for parents · Supporting without enabling (+ self-test) · OCD at school · What helps: treatment · What’s new in research · Where to get help · FAQ
What OCD in teens looks like
OCD has two parts. Obsessions are thoughts, images, or urges that pop up uninvited and feel upsetting or “wrong.” Compulsions are the things you do to make that feeling go away: actions you can see, like washing or checking, or mental ones, like replaying a conversation or saying a phrase in your head.
In teenagers, OCD often attaches to whatever matters most at that age. Some examples:
- School. Rereading a page until it “goes in,” rewriting notes until they look right, checking a submitted assignment again and again. A study of 151 young people with OCD found that concentrating on schoolwork and doing homework were the two most common OCD-related problems, and almost 90% had at least one area of life seriously affected (Piacentini et al., J Child Adolesc Psychopharmacol, 2003).
- Contamination. Avoiding shared bathrooms at school, long showers, washing hands until they crack. See our contamination OCD guide.
- Harm thoughts. Sudden, horrible images of hurting someone, often someone they love. These thoughts are common in OCD and they are not a sign of danger: our article on the fear of acting on intrusive thoughts explains why.
- Doubts about identity or relationships. “What if I don’t really like them?” “What if I’m a bad person?” See relationship OCD and moral OCD.
- “Just right” feelings. Things have to be even, symmetrical, or done a set number of times. See just right OCD.
- Reassurance seeking. Asking parents, friends, or the internet the same question over and over. It brings relief for a minute and then the doubt returns (why reassurance never lasts).
Teens often hide all of this. They may be embarrassed, afraid the thoughts mean something terrible about them, or worried they’ll get in trouble. Younger people with OCD also often have less insight: they may not see the rituals as excessive, or they may not have the words to explain them (Geller, Psychiatr Clin North Am, 2006). So OCD can look like other things from the outside: being slow, stubborn, moody, or “a perfectionist.”
Why OCD often starts in the teen years
OCD has two common peaks of onset: one at around age 10, and another in adulthood (Geller et al., Harv Rev Psychiatry, 1998). In a large meta-analysis, about 45% of obsessive-compulsive and related disorders had started by age 18 (Solmi et al., Mol Psychiatry, 2022).
In a UK survey of more than 10,000 children aged 5 to 15, OCD was found in about 1 in 400, and the rate rose with age, moving toward adult levels around puberty. Only a handful of the children with OCD had ever been seen by specialist services (Heyman et al., Br J Psychiatry, 2001). By adulthood, about 2.3% of people have had OCD at some point (Ruscio et al., Mol Psychiatry, 2010).
Why now? Nobody knows exactly. Genes, brain development, and stress all seem to play a part. The teen years also bring more pressure, more independence, new relationships, and more time alone with your thoughts. None of that causes OCD, but it gives an existing tendency plenty to work with.
OCD or normal teenage worry?
Everyone double-checks the door sometimes, and most teens worry about grades, friends, and how they look. Some signs that it may be OCD instead:
| Usually normal worry | May be OCD |
|---|---|
| Worry fits the situation and fades | The same thought keeps coming back, even after it’s “settled” |
| Checking once or twice | Checking until it feels right, sometimes for an hour or more |
| Reassurance helps | Reassurance helps for minutes, then the question returns |
| Routines are flexible | Getting upset or stuck when a ritual is interrupted |
| Takes little time | Takes more than about an hour a day, or gets in the way of school, sleep, or friends |
| Thoughts feel like your own | Thoughts feel unwanted, “not me,” and frightening |
If several of these sound familiar, a short online test can help you decide whether to talk to someone. Our OCD subtypes test shows which themes your worries tend to stick to. It isn’t a diagnosis, but it’s a good starting point. If you’re under 18, consider doing it with a parent. Whatever the result, if you’re not sure, the next step is the same: talk to a doctor or a mental health professional.
Will OCD last into adulthood? What the research says
This is the question many parents ask first, often late at night: is this who my child will be forever? The honest answer is often no, and the research is more hopeful than most people expect.
About half of young people with OCD no longer have it by adulthood. A meta-analysis pulled together 16 long-term studies of 521 young people, followed for 1 to 15 years. On average, 41% still had full OCD at follow-up, and 60% had either full OCD or milder, “subthreshold” symptoms. The authors concluded that persistence “may be lower than believed” (Stewart et al., Acta Psychiatr Scand, 2004). A long-term study from London’s Maudsley Hospital found the same rate, 41% (Micali et al., Br J Psychiatry, 2010), and a Yale team that followed children for about 9 years concluded that half of pediatric-onset OCD cases remit by adulthood (Bloch et al., J Child Psychol Psychiatry, 2011).
With treatment, the numbers are better still. In a large Nordic study, 269 young people received CBT in ordinary community clinics. Three years later, 90% were rated as having responded and 73% were in remission (Melin et al., JAACAP, 2020). Of the teens who responded well at first, only about 1 in 6 had a relapse in the following year (Højgaard et al., JAACAP, 2017). A 2026 meta-analysis of 47 studies even found that children’s results kept improving after treatment ended, while adults’ results held steady (Öst et al., Cogn Behav Ther, 2026).
What makes a better outcome more likely? Across these studies, a few things stand out:
- Getting help sooner. A longer time with OCD before treatment was the main predictor of OCD lasting in the Maudsley study (Micali et al., 2010), and a shorter wait before first treatment went with faster remission in a US study (Mancebo et al., Compr Psychiatry, 2014).
- Responding to the first treatment. Poor early response and other mental health conditions alongside OCD were linked with OCD lasting longer (Stewart et al., 2004), and young people with symptoms across many areas had poorer long-term outcomes (Cervin et al., JAACAP, 2025).
- Tics are, surprisingly, a good sign. In the Yale follow-up, children whose OCD came with a tic disorder tended to do better; prominent hoarding went with OCD lasting (Bloch et al., Pediatrics, 2009).
Not everyone follows the same path. In the Nordic study, about 55% of young people improved quickly and stayed well, 23% improved more slowly but kept improving, and 22% had limited long-term benefit and needed more help (Jensen et al., J Child Psychol Psychiatry, 2020). If your child is in that last group, it doesn’t mean nothing will work. It means the plan needs to change, and there are next steps (see treatment).
The bottom line for parents: OCD that starts in the teen years is not a life sentence. The single thing most within your control is how soon help starts.
Step-by-step plan for teens
If you’re a teen reading this, first: having these thoughts doesn’t make you weird, bad, or broken. Almost everyone gets strange or upsetting thoughts. OCD is what happens when your brain treats them like emergencies.
Step 1: Notice the loop
For a few days, quietly notice what happens. What thought shows up? What do you feel? What do you do to make it stop, and how long does the relief last? Write it in your phone’s notes if that helps. You’re not trying to fix anything yet, just to see the pattern: thought → anxiety → ritual → short relief → the thought comes back.
Step 2: Check it with a test
Take the OCD subtypes test to see which themes fit. A test can’t diagnose you, but a high score is a clear sign it’s worth talking to someone.
Step 3: Tell one adult you trust
This is often the hardest step. It might be a parent, a school counselor, a nurse, a coach, or a relative. You don’t have to explain every thought. You could say:
“I keep getting thoughts I can’t switch off, and I have to do things to make them stop. It’s taking up a lot of time and I think it might be OCD. Can you help me talk to a doctor?”
If the thoughts are about harm or something you’re ashamed of, you can keep it general: “I get really upsetting thoughts that aren’t like me.” A good clinician has heard it all before and won’t be shocked.
Step 4: See a doctor or mental health professional
Ask for an assessment for OCD specifically. In the US, a pediatrician or family doctor can refer you; in the UK, your GP can refer you to children and young people’s mental health services (CAMHS), and in some areas you can refer yourself (NHS). It’s fine to ask: “Do you do ERP, or can you refer me to someone who does?”
Step 5: Start practising “not doing the ritual”
The core of treatment is exposure and response prevention (ERP): facing the fear in small steps and letting the anxiety pass without the ritual. Your therapist will help you plan this, but you can start small: wait five minutes before checking, ask a question once instead of three times, leave one line of notes “not quite right.” Our ERP exercises guide has beginner ideas.
Try one small exposure now
Exposure and response prevention (ERP) means facing the thoughts OCD makes you avoid, without doing the ritual. Pick a thought from the app that makes you uneasy, then stay with it.
- I want to always be certain
- Uncertainty is unbearable
- Not knowing is unbearable
- I can't face uncertainty
- I need to know everything
- I must have absolute control
- I have to avoid uncertainty
- The worst feeling is uncertainty
- I must always be certain
- Uncertainty is my enemy
These are real statements from the ocd.app app. For each one, decide: is it OCD thinking that keeps the cycle going, or a helpful thought to practise?
- I need to know everything
- I have to know everything
- Without control - I'm useless
- Uncertainty is my enemy
- Me and 'unsure' can be friends
- I can bear not being in control
- Dealing with uncertainty makes me stronger
- Happiness can include letting go
An urge is a wave: it rises, peaks and passes, even when you do nothing. Breathe with the circle for 40 seconds — in for 4, out for 6 — and let the urge be there without acting on it.
Me and 'unsure' can be friends
Educational practice, not therapy or a diagnosis. More exercises from the app · Practise daily in the ocd.app app →
Step 6: Make a plan for school
If OCD is making school harder, a quiet word with a counselor or teacher can change a lot: extra time, a break pass, or permission to hand in work that’s “good enough.” See OCD at school below.
Step 7: Expect setbacks, and keep going
OCD gets louder when you’re stressed, tired, or ill, and it can jump to a new theme. That doesn’t mean treatment failed. Go back to the basics: notice the loop, don’t feed it, and tell someone if it’s getting harder.
Step-by-step plan for parents
If you’re a parent, you may feel scared, guilty, or exhausted, sometimes all at once. None of this is your fault, and you are one of the most important parts of your child’s recovery.
Step 1: Watch, and write it down
Note what you see for a week or two: how long routines take, which questions repeat, what your child avoids, and what happens when a ritual is interrupted. This gives a clinician much more to work with than “something’s not right.”
Step 2: Start the conversation calmly
Pick a quiet moment, not the middle of a ritual. Be curious, not critical. You could say: “I’ve noticed some things seem really hard for you lately, like getting ready in the morning. Sometimes our brains get stuck on worries. Would you tell me what it’s like?” Let them know that no thought they tell you will make you love them less.
Step 3: Get an assessment
Book an appointment with your child’s doctor and ask about OCD specifically. In the US, the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry’s practice guidance covers assessment and treatment for young people (AACAP, JAACAP, 2012); in the UK, NICE guidance covers children and young people (NICE CG31). If you’re told it’s “just a phase” and you’re still worried, it’s fine to ask for a referral.
Step 4: Reduce “accommodation,” slowly
This step surprises most parents. Family accommodation means the things families do to ease the anxiety: answering the same question again, rewashing clothes, avoiding certain words, waiting while rituals finish. It comes from love, and it’s extremely common: in one study, more than half of parents gave reassurance daily (Peris et al., JAACAP, 2008).
The problem is that accommodation tends to keep OCD going. It’s linked with more severe symptoms (Storch et al., J Clin Child Adolesc Psychol, 2007; Wu et al., Clin Psychol Rev, 2016). Don’t stop everything at once. With your child’s therapist, pick one thing to reduce, explain the change in advance, and stay warm. The section below, how to support your teen without feeding the OCD, shows how, with a quick self-test.
Step 5: Support practice at home
Ask the therapist how you can help between sessions. Usually that means encouraging exposures, praising effort (not “being brave enough”), and resisting the urge to rescue your child from anxiety. Anxiety rises, peaks, and falls; each time it falls without a ritual, your child learns that they can handle it.
Step 6: Bring the school in
If OCD affects attendance, homework, or concentration, talk to the school. See the next section.
Step 7: Look after yourself
Supporting a child with OCD is hard. Find your own support: a partner, friends, a parent group, or your own therapist. A calmer parent helps an anxious child more than a perfect one.
How to support your teen without feeding the OCD
Most parents who “enable” OCD are doing exactly what a loving parent does: they see their child suffering and they make it stop. The trouble is that OCD learns from it. Every time a parent answers the worry, does the check, or steps around the trigger, the teen’s brain gets the message “that really was dangerous, and you couldn’t have coped without help.” The next round of anxiety comes back a little stronger.
Researchers call this family accommodation, and it’s measured with tools like the Family Accommodation Scale (Calvocoressi et al., Am J Psychiatry, 1995). It matters for treatment, too: in one study of young people in CBT, those whose families cut back on accommodation improved the most (Merlo et al., J Consult Clin Psychol, 2009). A review of the research found the same link again and again (Lebowitz et al., Expert Rev Neurother, 2016).
Test yourself: do you enable your loved one’s OCD?
About this self-test
- What it measures: how much OCD has pulled you into its routines. Experts call this family accommodation. It does not test your teen for OCD, and it does not grade you as a parent.
- Who it’s for: parents, and also partners, siblings, or anyone who lives with someone with OCD.
- How it works: 8 questions about everyday situations. Each one asks: in the past 7 days, on how many days did this happen? Choose from “Not at all this week” to “Every day this week.” It takes about 2 minutes.
- Your result: a score from 0 to 32, with one of three levels (little, some, or a lot of accommodation) and a suggested next step. A higher score is common, comes from love, and is something you can change.
- Based on: the topics of the Family Accommodation Scale, a tool clinicians use. This short version is a self-check, not a clinical assessment. Share your result with your teen’s therapist if they have one.
What enabling looks like, and what to try instead
| OCD asks you to… | Try this instead | What you can say |
|---|---|---|
| Answer “Are you sure it’s clean?” for the fifth time | Answer once, then stop answering the worry | “I can see this worry is loud right now. I’ve answered it once. I think you can handle not knowing for sure.” |
| Check the door, the stove, or their homework for them | Let them do one check themselves, or none, as agreed with the therapist | “I know it feels unfinished. I’m right here while that feeling settles.” |
| Rewash their clothes or wash your hands on request | Keep your normal routine, and kindly say no to the extra wash | “I won’t do the extra wash, because I don’t want to help OCD boss you around. I love you, and I’m not going anywhere.” |
| Avoid certain words, foods, rooms, or people | Bring them back slowly, one at a time, starting with the easiest | “This one’s hard. We’ll do the small step together, and you get to say when you’re ready to try.” |
| Wait 40 minutes while a routine finishes | Agree on a time in advance, then move on calmly at that time | “It’s time to go. I know OCD isn’t happy about that. You can be anxious in the car; I’ll be with you.” |
| Do their tasks because “it’s quicker” | Help them start, then step back | “You start, and I’ll stay nearby. I believe you can do this part.” |
| Give in when they get very upset | Stay calm and kind, and wait for the wave to pass | “I can see how upset you are, and that makes sense. I’m not going to do what OCD wants, but I’m staying with you.” |
Emotional support that doesn’t feed OCD
Stepping back from rituals doesn’t mean stepping back from your teen. Your comfort is not the problem. The problem is comfort that answers OCD’s question. A simple rule: comfort the feeling, not the fear.
- Reassurance answers the worry: “No, you didn’t get sick. Yes, the door is locked. Nothing bad will happen.” It brings relief for a few minutes, and then the question comes back.
- Support speaks to the person: “This feels awful right now. You’ve got through this feeling before, and you can again. I’m here.” It doesn’t answer the worry, so OCD gets nothing to hold on to, but your teen still feels cared for.
The SPACE program, mentioned below, calls this a supportive statement: say that you accept how hard it feels, and that you’re confident they can cope (Lebowitz et al., 2020). It helps to have a few ready, because in the moment it’s hard to think of them:
- “I know this is really hard, and I know you can handle it.”
- “You don’t have to feel calm to get through this.”
- “That’s the OCD talking. You’re not your thoughts.”
- “I’m proud of you for not doing it, even though it was scary.”
- “We can sit here together until the wave passes.”
Other ways to support without enabling:
- Be with them, without fixing. Sit nearby, offer a hug if they want one, or keep doing something calm in the same room. Being there isn’t a ritual. Doing what OCD asks is.
- Name the feeling. “You look really anxious” helps your teen feel seen, and it helps them learn to notice anxiety rising and falling.
- Praise effort, not outcome. Notice when they resist a ritual for even a minute, or try something hard, whether or not it “went well.”
- Make time that isn’t about OCD. Do the things you both enjoy, and talk about school, friends, and plans. Your teen is much more than their OCD, and they need to hear that from you.
- Repair after hard moments. If you snap or give in, that’s normal. Later, say so: “I got frustrated earlier. That wasn’t fair. Let’s try again tomorrow.”
Try to avoid “just stop,” “there’s nothing to worry about,” or “you’re being silly.” The first asks for something they can’t do yet; the second is reassurance; the third adds shame. None of them help the anxiety pass.
Seven ground rules for supporting without enabling
- Blame the OCD, not your teen. Talk about OCD as a bully you’re fighting together: “That sounds like OCD talking. What does it want you to do?” This takes shame out of it.
- Show you believe in them. Pair acceptance with confidence: “I know this feels awful, and I know you can get through it.” This is the core of SPACE, a parent-led program from Yale. In a large trial for childhood anxiety it worked as well as CBT given to the child (Lebowitz et al., JAACAP, 2020), and an early study adapted it for teen OCD (Lebowitz, J Obsessive Compuls Relat Disord, 2013).
- Change one thing at a time. Pick one accommodation, not all of them. Cutting everything at once usually leads to a blow-up and then giving in, which teaches OCD that pushing harder works.
- Tell them before you change anything. Surprises feel like betrayal. Try: “Starting Monday, I’ll answer a question about germs once. After that I’ll remind you that we’re fighting OCD together.” With a teen, plan it together where you can.
- Don’t argue with the content. You can’t logic someone out of an obsession, and debating it is just reassurance in a longer form. Talk about the feeling, not the fear.
- Get the whole family on the same page. If one parent stops reassuring and the other carries on, OCD simply goes to the other parent. Agree on the plan together, including with grandparents and older siblings.
- Expect a spike, and hold steady. Anxiety, anger, or tears often get worse for a few days when you step back. That’s a sign the change is working, not that it’s failing. Stay warm, praise effort, and don’t punish distress.
Cutting back accommodation is not the same as withdrawing support. You’re still there, you’re just not doing what OCD tells you to do. If your teen’s safety is ever at risk, safety comes first; talk to their clinician right away. For more on this, read our guide to family accommodation in OCD.
OCD at school: what can help
OCD often shows up most at school, and the impact is real. A Swedish study of national registers found that people diagnosed with OCD before age 18 had lower educational attainment at every level (Pérez-Vigil et al., JAMA Psychiatry, 2018). That’s a picture of what happens without enough support, and a strong reason to ask for it early.
- US: a student whose condition limits learning may qualify for a Section 504 plan, which can include changes like extra time, breaks, or adjusted homework (US Department of Education).
- UK: ask to speak to the school’s special educational needs coordinator (SENCo) or pastoral lead about reasonable adjustments.
- Helpful adjustments often include: extra time on tests, a quiet room, a “time out” pass, flexibility on handwriting or neatness, and one trusted adult to check in with. Avoid adjustments that feed rituals, like letting your child redo work until it feels perfect.
For older teens heading to college, see our guide to OCD in college students.
What helps: treatment for teen OCD
CBT with ERP is the first-line treatment for young people. In a meta-analysis of 25 trials, around 70% of young people responded to CBT, compared with 49% for medication alone and 29% for placebo. Combining CBT and medication was not better than CBT alone on average (Öst et al., J Anxiety Disord, 2016). A separate meta-analysis found that for every three young people treated with CBT, one extra person gets better (McGuire et al., Depress Anxiety, 2015).
In the landmark US POTS trial of 112 young people aged 7 to 17, remission rates were 54% with CBT plus sertraline, 39% with CBT alone, 21% with sertraline alone, and 4% with placebo (POTS Team, JAMA, 2004). For young people who had only partly improved on medication, adding CBT doubled the response rate (69% vs 34%) (Franklin et al., JAMA, 2011).
What about medication? SSRIs are an option for some young people, often alongside CBT. That’s a decision to make with a doctor; this guide isn’t medical advice.
Help doesn’t have to be face to face. In a Swedish trial with teens aged 12 to 17, internet-delivered CBT with about 17 minutes a week of therapist support worked better than a waitlist (Lenhard et al., JAACAP, 2017), and a later trial found that starting with internet CBT, then moving to in-person care if needed, worked about as well as in-person CBT from the start (Aspvall et al., JAMA, 2021).
Our complete guide to ERP therapy explains how it works step by step. If you’re 13 or older, the ocd.app app offers short, CBT-based daily exercises you can use between sessions, ideally with a parent or therapist in the loop. It’s a practice tool, not a replacement for treatment.
What’s new in research on teen OCD
A few recent studies worth knowing about:
- Treatment in just four days. In Norway, 43 teens received the Bergen 4-day treatment, an intensive, concentrated form of ERP. Three months later, 92% had responded and 85% were in remission. It was an open study without a comparison group, so larger trials are needed (Skjold et al., BMC Psychiatry, 2024).
- A month of concentrated CBT. A randomized trial gave 20 hours of CBT in one month to young people aged 7 to 17. It worked much better than waiting, and the gains held for six months; the younger children did better than the teens (Hermida-Barros et al., Behav Ther, 2025).
- Children keep improving after treatment. A 2026 meta-analysis of 47 studies followed people for about 2.5 years after CBT. Adults held their gains, and children improved even further (Öst et al., Cogn Behav Ther, 2026).
- Who needs extra help. Young people whose difficulties spread across several areas (for example, OCD plus anxiety, low mood, or attention problems) had poorer long-term outcomes after standard CBT, a sign they may need a broader plan (Cervin et al., JAACAP, 2025).
- The teenage brain. A small 2026 brain-imaging study of 40 adolescents with OCD found differences in how brain networks switch between states, involving areas linked with habits and control. It’s early, exploratory work, not something that changes treatment yet (Li et al., Compr Psychiatry, 2026).
Where to get help
If you’re in danger or thinking about suicide, get help now. In the US, call or text 988 (988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). In the UK, young people can call Childline on 0800 1111, free and any time (Childline), or call 999 in an emergency.
For OCD support:
- US: the International OCD Foundation’s OCD in Kids site, for parents and young people, including a therapist directory.
- UK: YoungMinds on OCD for young people and for parents, OCD-UK for young people, and the NHS guide to OCD.
Some symptoms need a quick medical check. If OCD symptoms start very suddenly in a child, sometimes after an infection, doctors may look into PANS or PANDAS. There are expert recommendations for how to assess this (Chang et al., J Child Adolesc Psychopharmacol, 2015), so mention a sudden start to your child’s doctor.
Parents of younger children can also read our overview of OCD in children and teens.
Frequently asked questions
Is OCD common in teens? Yes. OCD often starts in childhood or the teen years; about 45% of obsessive-compulsive and related disorders begin by age 18 (Solmi et al., 2022). Many teens hide it, so it’s often missed.
Will my teen grow out of OCD? Many do. In long-term studies, about half of young people with OCD no longer had it by adulthood, and 41% still had full OCD (Stewart et al., 2004; Bloch et al., 2011). With CBT, 73% of young people in one large study were in remission three years later (Melin et al., 2020).
What is the best treatment for OCD in teens? CBT with exposure and response prevention (ERP) is the first-line treatment; about 70% of young people respond (Öst et al., 2016). Medication is sometimes added; talk to a doctor.
How do I know if my teen has OCD or is just a perfectionist? Perfectionism usually feels like “I want this to be good.” OCD feels like “something bad will happen, or it will feel unbearable, unless I do this.” OCD rituals take a lot of time, bring only short relief, and cause distress when interrupted.
Should I give my teen reassurance? A little support is fine, but answering the same question again and again tends to feed OCD. Work with a therapist to reduce reassurance gradually and kindly.
How do I stop enabling my teen’s OCD? Notice what OCD asks you to do, then cut back one thing at a time. Tell your teen about the change in advance, stay warm, and expect anxiety to rise for a few days before it falls. Take the family accommodation self-test to see where to start.
Can a teen use an app for OCD? Apps can help with practice between sessions. The ocd.app app is for ages 13 and up, and works best alongside a parent or therapist, not instead of treatment.
This article is for educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment. If you’re in crisis, contact your local emergency services or a crisis line (in the US, call or text 988; in the UK, young people can call Childline on 0800 1111, or call Samaritans on 116 123).